ahahahhahahaa...bigu shocku? guys and girls can be friends, winnz but there's a certain point where the dynamics change (like, after high school) where you make friends in college, or the work place or wherever. This is how I view it ( I could be wrong) Woman + Guy = not going to workGirl + Man = not going to workMan + Woman = friendship or relationship is possibleI think there is a point where maturity levels need to match, and guys take a lot longer to become men than girls do to become women.I also think there is a huge cultural difference in "friendship." In places like Japan, where everything is "cute" and "innocent" (i.e. all J-Dorama's) friendships like this actually exist...but I think in America where everything is driven by sex, sex comes first, and if it's meant to be, friendship will evolve. But that's just my opinion. I mean, there might be those who have been best buddies for 10 years and turn into girlfriend/boyfriend and then get married...but there's a reason why that's the plot of every Hollywood movie...because it's a fantasy.